Our children were embarrassingly old when they finally mastered riding bikes without training wheels. And not because they lacked desire or skill—it’s kind of on us. Many of you know that we live on a farm, and even though we have 30 acres to roam, none of it is paved or smooth. That makes for wonderful walks and hikes, but not so great for learning how to ride a bike.
Justin and I love biking. I grew up near trails that wound all around Tulsa. I have memories of being strapped to my mom’s bike, just like that little character from Peanuts—riding with her is one of my best memories. Justin too—he comes from a long line of cyclists. His grandfather still rides in his 80s. Cycling runs deep with the Foster men.
But for years, our kids struggled on gravel, and hauling 5 bikes to trails always felt like a chore. Finally, Christmas of 2024, we upgraded everyone to mountain bikes to make that bumpy driveway a little more manageable. Within weeks, all three kids were cruising the farm, riding to Granny and Grandpa’s, even waking up asking if they could ride before breakfast.
All that to say—my family literally learned how to ride bikes together just seven months ago. Now we’re on a cross-continent trip and had to bring the bikes.



Honestly, when we started this trip, we had never gone on a full family bike ride longer than maybe half a mile—and that was only once. Our kids had never ridden on city streets or navigated right-of-ways. The younger two had definitely never been on a trail bumpier than our gravel road.
In the last three months, they’ve taken paved scenic rides, gravel forest rides, been dropped off at a glacier overlook and ridden their way down, biked trails to beaches, waterfalls, rocky slopes, and canyons. They’ve even tackled trails that draw people from all over the world in Whistler and Moab. And guess what—so have I.




I had only been mountain biking once in my life before this trip. It always scared me. Something about going up mountains seemed impossible, and I preferred the wind-in-my-hair part of road biking over the watch-out-for-obstacles part of mountain biking. But I did it all too. Scared to death most of the time—self-talking, praising myself for going faster, taking turns more bravely.
Ellie and I learned that hanging back at the rear of the pack, going at our own pace, gave us time to do hard things together. We became like our own affirmation track, cheering each other on with every pedal stroke.
Every ride, I not only felt stronger, but more loved—loved by my family and loved by myself.
This trip hasn’t been about escaping anything. It’s about creating space to be us. To step into situations every single day where we get to practice being our best selves. Where we have the freedom to fail. To be afraid. To learn. And to do it all together—not just parents teaching kids, but a family sharing challenges and new adventures genuinely together.
And biking has, by far, been my favorite adventure…… (well there is also all those animals we saw too:)





























