10 Wheels

Our children were embarrassingly old when they finally mastered riding bikes without training wheels. And not because they lacked desire or skill—it’s kind of on us. Many of you know that we live on a farm, and even though we have 30 acres to roam, none of it is paved or smooth. That makes for wonderful walks and hikes, but not so great for learning how to ride a bike.

Justin and I love biking. I grew up near trails that wound all around Tulsa. I have memories of being strapped to my mom’s bike, just like that little character from Peanuts—riding with her is one of my best memories. Justin too—he comes from a long line of cyclists. His grandfather still rides in his 80s. Cycling runs deep with the Foster men.

But for years, our kids struggled on gravel, and hauling 5 bikes to trails always felt like a chore. Finally, Christmas of 2024, we upgraded everyone to mountain bikes to make that bumpy driveway a little more manageable. Within weeks, all three kids were cruising the farm, riding to Granny and Grandpa’s, even waking up asking if they could ride before breakfast.

All that to say—my family literally learned how to ride bikes together just seven months ago. Now we’re on a cross-continent trip and had to bring the bikes.

Honestly, when we started this trip, we had never gone on a full family bike ride longer than maybe half a mile—and that was only once. Our kids had never ridden on city streets or navigated right-of-ways. The younger two had definitely never been on a trail bumpier than our gravel road.

In the last three months, they’ve taken paved scenic rides, gravel forest rides, been dropped off at a glacier overlook and ridden their way down, biked trails to beaches, waterfalls, rocky slopes, and canyons. They’ve even tackled trails that draw people from all over the world in Whistler and Moab. And guess what—so have I.

I had only been mountain biking once in my life before this trip. It always scared me. Something about going up mountains seemed impossible, and I preferred the wind-in-my-hair part of road biking over the watch-out-for-obstacles part of mountain biking. But I did it all too. Scared to death most of the time—self-talking, praising myself for going faster, taking turns more bravely.

Ellie and I learned that hanging back at the rear of the pack, going at our own pace, gave us time to do hard things together. We became like our own affirmation track, cheering each other on with every pedal stroke.

Every ride, I not only felt stronger, but more loved—loved by my family and loved by myself.

This trip hasn’t been about escaping anything. It’s about creating space to be us. To step into situations every single day where we get to practice being our best selves. Where we have the freedom to fail. To be afraid. To learn. And to do it all together—not just parents teaching kids, but a family sharing challenges and new adventures genuinely together.

And biking has, by far, been my favorite adventure…… (well there is also all those animals we saw too:)

Sailing around the World

This post is not what you think.
We are not sailing around the world—
or at least, that’s not on my list of things to do.

About eight years ago, we were sitting on our couch. Theo was a toddler, Ellie was a baby. I’m foggy on the exact timeline, but not the conversation.

Justin looked at me and said,
“What if we sailed around the world?”

Now—most of you have seen me in person.
“Rosy” is a gentle word for my complexion.
I burn just thinking about going outside.

sort of like the beach—slightly.
These days I wear a full-body suit, a wide-brimmed hat, and sit under an umbrella.
All to say: I should not be in the sun.

Also, I don’t know how to sail.
Wait—we don’t know how to sail.


Oh and we had toddlers – see post on Fear if you are wondering my thoughts on living on a boat with little people who sink easily. 

So there we were: my husband sharing his soul- baring his hopes and dreams of life on a boat- and I’m pretty sure he’d like me to come along.

Now here’s something I’ve learned in our marriage:
When Justin shares something like this, he has already dreamedresearched, and planned, for hours.
By the time he says it out loud, it’s not just a dream.

Here’s another honest truth:
I like saying no.
It’s not something I struggle with.  Well maybe something I’m learning to struggle with better. 

And back then, this dream—this sailing adventure—with me and our non-floating babies?
I couldn’t see that it wasn’t really about the boat.

What I didn’t realize at the time was… he was right.
Not about the boat (we’re still not quite aligned on that).
But about the life it would bring.

It took time—
it always does.
He always sees things first.
Where we could go.
Who we could become.
He sees it in us, he sees it in others.  

With time, this dream had grown with intention.

We substituted a boat for an Airstream.

And you know what?
He was right.
I’m glad he was.

Salmon are a runnin’

Every summer, salmon head from the deep ocean back to the streams they were born. They run upstream—not to eat—but to spawn and die.

Before this trip, I didn’t know much about salmon. In all the years we’ve talked about coming to Alaska, everything has been planned around the salmon run. Our earliest conversations were a mix of me agreeing to a vacation in Alaska and Justin insisting it needed to be four weeks long. I didn’t understand why we couldn’t just spend a week here.

But over the years—talking, planning, deciding—I started to understand. And now, as we sit at the river, I get it.

We arrived on the Kenai Peninsula around July 8th. We claimed a site at a first-come, first-served campground right on the river. We’d done our research. For the past few years, we’ve tried to book a private fishing spot. They’re all full. For years.

We managed to secure one for August—but even that, I booked almost a year in advance. So, we were nervous about not having a firm reservation. We stalked this campground, paid for a site about a week early, then traveled to Homer and Seward before circling back. I’m so glad we did. By the time we returned, the campground was filling up. By the 15th, it was full.

Two hundred and fifty sites packed with families, waders, rain tents, and fishing poles. It was unlike anything I’d ever experienced—almost like camping at a music festival… but replace the music with fish.

Centennial Campground
Home for three weeks

The first few days, we caught three to four salmon a day. Still finding our groove—figuring out spots, gear, lines. That felt like a win to me. I was focused on finding places where the kids could come and go, spots that felt convenient to our campsite.

But Justin had a different vision. He was on a mission to find the best hole in the river. And while he found a great one, the truth is—in just a few days—the entire river would be full of salmon.

At the start of the run, salmon begin entering the mouth of the river in the thousands. The Alaska Department of Fish and Game sends out daily fish counts and tracks year-to-year trends. We’ve been watching that tracker for years to know when to come.

When we started on the 15th, the count was around 50,000. That felt big at the time. But that was nothing.

Each day we caught more and more. Depending on how many of us were fishing, we were hauling in between 12–36 salmon every time at the river.

What we didn’t know—what even the locals didn’t know—was that this year would be one for the record books. Historic numbers. Multiple days with over 250,000 salmon pushing through the mouth of the Kenai. The total is approaching 3 million… and the season isn’t over yet.

Our freezers are bursting and this shows why…..

Before this trip I barely knew the types the ofsalmon. Now, I at least know their names—and I know we’re here for Sockeye (Reds). King Salmon are off-limits on the Kenai due to dangerously low numbers, largely attributed to commercial fishing.

One rumor floating around town is that commercial boats were forced to back off from the mouth of the river this year—giving more salmon a chance to make it upriver. If that’s true, we’re certainly not complaining.

You might be wondering, Who needs so much salmon?

Most days now, I wake up asking the same thing. But when you plan your entire year around fishing the salmon run on the Kenai, it feels a little crazy to ask your husband and father-in-law to take the day off (they did take plenty of days offs on their own accord)

So we fish. We pack. We freeze. We ship.

And for a lucky few, fresh Alaskan salmon is flying across the country to your doorstep.

As for us—we’ve added a second deep freezer, a bigger vacuum sealer, two more coolers, and built a smoker.

Because we’re determined to keep fishing… until the last salmon stops running….. well not really- but we’ll take our time.